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Lost thoughts: the second decade

 Twenty and your twenties are a different stage of your life to being in your teens. This is the decade where perhaps you finish university, make up, start a career, break up, go travelling, meet someone, find friends, loose friends, marriage, possibly divorce, find a hobby. A lot can happen in a decade of life, especially the second.

Different people will do different things, at different rates, places and ways. And that’s okay, what ever point you do you at.

I want my twenties to be energetic, and real and loved. I want them to be special in more ways than one. You only get one shot round the sun, so I want to do wild things and crazy ideas and spontaneous travel because why not. I would like people in them who I really value, who mean a lot to me and I will do a lot for also.

For now this means sky diving, running, seeing, blogging and Pinteresting. These interests might change in a month, week, decade. Who’s knows. That’s the beauty of it. I’m figuring out what I do and don’t like and that’s hard, it always will be.

So far I’ve learnt I want to be surrounded by people who want the best for me, and me for them as cringey as it sounds. I want cheerleaders in my life, and I want to be there to cheer them on to.

I have seen I don’t think super corporate is for me, and you know what that’s okay. No one is forcing you to do anything, so make the most of having choice whilst you can or it will slip away.